Unit 6: Sportsmanship · Lesson 1
What Is Sportsmanship
What this lesson is for
- Define sportsmanship in your own words.
- Give one example of good and one example of poor sportsmanship you've seen or experienced.
What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
1 Corinthians 6:19
What Is Sportsmanship?
Sportsmanship is the quality of character that a person shows in how they participate in physical activities — in how they treat teammates, opponents, officials, and the activity itself. A person with good sportsmanship plays honestly, treats others with respect, handles disappointment gracefully, and finds genuine joy in shared activity — regardless of outcome.
Sportsmanship is not primarily about what happens on the outside (the score, the winning or losing) but about what is happening on the inside — the condition of the heart.
"Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life" (Proverbs 4:23, KJV). Your heart — your inner attitudes — shapes everything that comes out of you. Good sportsmanship flows from a heart that values others, loves truth, and finds satisfaction in effort and relationship rather than in outcomes.
What Good Sportsmanship Looks Like
Before the activity:
- Preparing honestly — not cutting corners in training or practice
- Treating all participants with equal respect before you know the outcome
- Approaching the activity with a spirit of joyful participation
During the activity:
- Playing according to the rules — even when no one is watching
- Responding to adversity without anger or blame
- Encouraging teammates after mistakes
- Acknowledging good play by others — even opponents
- Accepting official calls without arguing
After the activity:
- Thanking participants and leaders regardless of outcome
- Processing disappointment quietly and privately — not publicly blaming others
- Celebrating with humility — not in ways that embarrass or diminish others
- Reviewing what you can learn and improve — with a teachable spirit
What Poor Sportsmanship Looks Like
Poor sportsmanship includes:
- Cheating or bending rules when not observed
- Blaming teammates for losses
- Taunting or making unkind remarks
- Arguing with officials
- Sulking or giving up when behind
- Excessive celebration that demeans others
- Playing only to win, regardless of how you treat others
Why Sportsmanship Matters
Sportsmanship matters because how you participate reveals who you are. Physical activity is a test not just of physical ability but of character. Many people look good when things are going well. What reveals genuine character is how you behave under pressure — when you are losing, when you make a mistake, when you are treated unfairly.
"Blessed are the pure in heart: for they shall see God" (Matthew 5:8, KJV). Purity of heart — integrity between what you believe and how you behave — is what God values. Sportsmanship is one arena where that purity of heart is tested and built.
Homework
Notice one moment of good sportsmanship (yours or someone else's) this week — in a game, a chore, or schoolwork — and be ready to describe it next lesson.
Note for the parent
Today's lesson covers What Is Sportsmanship. Estimated time: 30 minutes. Encourage independent work but be available for questions.
The first three of this lesson's 9 questions
What is sportsmanship PRIMARILY about?
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Answer: The condition of your heart — how you treat others, honesty, respect, and grace
Which Proverbs verse says 'out of it (the heart) are the issues of life'?
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Answer: 'Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life'
What does good sportsmanship look like DURING an activity?
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Answer: Playing honestly, encouraging teammates, acknowledging good play by opponents
Another 6 questions follow in the lesson itself, each one graded the moment it is answered.